Saturday, April 19, 2008

Reflecting on Life....and death

This past week, I was asked to officiate a funeral for a member of the community. After officiating a number of funerals previous, this part of my "job" doesn't seem to ever come easy. But perhaps it shouldn't. As I sit with any family, who is grieving the loss of a loved one, there are always unanswered questions, heavy hearts and a longing to know the person is in a better place. I do struggle with how to comfort a family, even what to pray; however, I can honestly say that God will fill my mind with the truth of his character and love, as I open my mouth to pray.

So often I recall the comments of David in the Bible, found in the Psalms. He went from praising God, to crying out to him, to reflecting on the presence and power of the creator. I can sure relate to David's feelings & his authenticity. For sure David didn't understand his world or some of the events that came his way; however, David still hung onto God.

When we face adversity, perhaps the death of a family member or friend, will we turn to God? Do we trust that He is there for us? Or does our faith weaken in adversity?

My hope is that Paul's words in Philippians 4:7 are what we live out..
"in everything, by prayer an petition present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus."

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